The Myth of Game Playing (Men & Women).

  • As I said before, women are using strategies on you every step of the way. Men need the same kind of advantages. Women started out as little girls in slumber parties talking about boys and what they did on dates, collaborating and learning. They read “Teen” and “Cosmopolitan” with relationship quizzes and advice. Women exchange information more freely on the topic of relationship than guys ever do. If something was or wasn’t working, they would talk about it. Boys never did, due to pride, ego, whatever. With that kind of schooling, you didn’t stand a chance, especially when you spent your high school years throwing a football around and sneaking peeks at Penthouse. That is, you didn’t stand a chance…until now.
  • Any effort you take to improve the situation is a win for both of you. You’re seeking to improve the chances that both of you can get what you want and need. Everyone comes out ahead.
  • Both men and women are on their best behavior in the early stages. You have to present your best self so that you can have the chance to gradually reveal yourself to the other person. And in the end, you’ll never be able to hide the real you from her, anyways. It will come through.
  • Remember that the three S’s — Self-confidence, Self-discipline, and a Sense of Humor — are behaviors. Exhibiting them may feel uncomfortable at times, but that does not make them fake or false to who you are. Only you can control the presentation of your personality. And it’s up to you to present yourself in the best possible way so that she gets the right idea of who you are.

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